Human Life philosophy: Mayonnaise jar and 2 cups of coffee

When things in your life seem , almost too much to handle,
When 24 Hours in a day is not enough,
Remember the mayonnaise jar and 2 cups of coffee.

A professor stood before his philosophy class
And had some items in front of him.
When the class began, wordlessly,
He picked up a very large and empty mayonnaise jar
and proceeded to fill it with golf balls.

He then asked the students, if the jar was full.
They agreed that it was.

The professor then picked up a box of pebbles and poured
them into the jar. He shook the jar lightly.
The pebbles rolled into the open Areas between the golf balls.

He then asked the students again if the jar was full. They agreed it was.

The professor next picked up a box of sand and poured it into the jar.
Of course, the sand filled up everything else.
He asked once more if the jar was full. The students responded with a unanimous 'yes.'

The professor then produced two cups of coffee from under the table and poured the entire contents into the jar, effectively
filling the empty space between the sand. The students laughed.

'Now,' said the professor, as the laughter subsided,
'I want you to recognize that this jar represents your life.
The golf balls are the important things - family,
children, health, Friends, and Favorite passions –
Things that if everything else was lost and only they remained, Your life would still be full.

The pebbles are the other things that matter like your job, house, and car.

The sand is everything else --The small stuff.

'If you put the sand into the jar first,' He continued,
'there is no room for the pebbles or the golf balls.
The same goes for life.

If you spend all your time and energy on the small stuff,
You will never have room for the things that are important to you.

So...

Pay attention to the things that are critical to your happiness.
Play With your children.
Take time to get medical checkups.
Take your partner out to dinner.

There will always be time to clean the house and fix the disposal.

'Take care of the golf balls first --
The things that really matter.
Set your priorities. The rest is just sand.'

One of the students raised her hand and inquired what the coffee represented.

The professor smiled.
'I'm glad you asked'.

It just goes to show you that no matter how full your life may seem,
there's always room for a couple of cups of coffee with a friend.'

Apply this in your life and there'll be no wrong. We are living in a 2nd world country, competition is everywhere. When people working in Sweden do overtime, their boss will not be happy. They'll wonder why they wanna do OT since there's more to life than work.
We work to live, we do not live to work. Only machines in factories live to work.

快乐人生灿烂晴空：愈放下愈快乐

生活富裕了，但压力越来越大；
收入增加了，但快乐却越来越少。
其实，累与不累只是一种感觉。
压力的大小，主要取决于自己的心态。
快乐与不快乐，就看你是否学会了放下。
放下，是一种生活的智慧。
放下，是一门心灵的学问。
放下压力，活得轻松；
放下烦恼，活得幸福；
放下自卑，活得自信；
放下懒惰，活得充实；
放下消极，活得成功；
放下抱怨，活得舒坦；
放下犹豫，活得潇洒；
放下狭隘，活得自在
人生在世，有些事情是不必在乎的，有些东西是必须清空的。
只有该放下时放下，你才能够腾出手来，抓住真正属于你的快乐和幸福。

Life shrinks or expands in proportion to one's courage

It was a flickering day...Mind keeps swinging, and emotion is not stable...

Tears dropped without control, heart counting hope to get others' sympathetic...

It was an emotional day, and heart just couldnt focus yet growing suspicious feeling...

The feel of inferior growing stronger and stronger...it kills peaceful mind...

It was an uneasy day... A weak word would break the glass heart...

It shrinks one's life...

There shall be a stream to push the negative energy... The internal urge to live life back to normal... to focus on the mind and life contentfully...

The bounce of the heartache shall be cure... the courage to live peacefully ...

Did I ever appologise?

If I never appologise to you, please forgive me for my ignorance.
I hereby appologise to you for what I have done, it is my fault to cause all these.

If I were deserve for the unforgiveness, I only can say I admit it is my fault, and I again appologise for the faulties that I have done.

I deeply appologise to you. It is the only way that I can do -'APPOLOGISE'.
I strongly hope that I can undo whatever that I have done. But, the truth is, neither you and me have the magical power to unwind it. Again, I appologise for the past, which I cant unwind it.

If i am given a chance to recover the friendship, I will grab it with my greatest sincerity to stitch whatever that has broken. I promise I will handle with care...

It might be just a wish that cant be realize, but I am trying my best to do it...
It might stay as a wish forever, but I do try my best now and ever to stitch the left over friendship... at least with a sincere heart that never want to give up...

I appologise...and that's the only word that I can say ...although it might be or might not be able to reach you...

I appologise...

I hope that is not the destiny that we are ending... I hope that we still have future to complete the friendship destiny ...

Appologise with a wishing heart to recover... although the hope is very thin...I am still carrying it...now and forever...

你最珍贵

你最珍贵
曲∶凌伟文 词∶林明阳/十方 编∶杜自持

(男)明年这个时间 约在这个地点
(女)记得带著玫瑰 打上领带系上思念
(男)动情时刻最美 真心的给不累
(女)太多的爱怕醉 没人疼爱再美的人也会憔悴
(男)我会送你红色玫瑰
(女)你知道我爱流泪 你别拿一生眼泪相对
(男)(女)未来的日子有你才美梦才会真一点
(女)我学著在你爱里沉醉
(男)我不撤退 你守护著我穿过黑夜
(合)我愿意这条情路相守相随
你最珍贵
(music)

(男)动情时刻最美 真心的给不累
(女)太多的爱怕醉 没人疼爱再美的人也会憔悴
(男)我会送你红色玫瑰
(女)你知道我爱流泪 你别拿一生眼泪相对
(男)(女)未来的日子有你才美梦才会真一点
(女)我学著在你爱里沉醉
(男)我不撤退 你守护著我穿过黑夜
(合)我愿意这条情路相守相随
你最珍贵

(男)我会送你红色玫瑰
(女)你知道我爱流泪 你别拿一生眼泪相对
(男)(女)未来的日子有你才美梦才会真一点
(女)我学著在你爱里沉醉
(男)我不撤退 你守护著我穿过黑夜
(合)我愿意这条情路相守相随

你最珍贵

A peaceful night

Calm, peace, glad, relax...that's my feeling of the night.

Calm as not much to worry...
Peace as I am happy internally...
Glad as I am still enjoying my life...I have a say to reject what I do not like, and do what i like...
Relax as I am listening to my lovely song...while waiting my favourite movie being downloaded...

It is going to be Friday soon...Another weekend is approaching...ushering my sweet own time...

Birthday wishes...

Everyone is granted birthday wishes once a year.

Mine just cross thru the corner. It stunted me when I was being ask to make birthday wishes. I have been living in this world for many years, and I suppose what i am having are sufficient for me to live luxurious then.

What I was wishing, I believe I have been granted since then. For those wishes that still not happening, I wouldnt expect it will happen. There is always an end of everything, and I guess the desire is faded when time pass thru.

It is just too tired to make the wishes that need luck and miracle to realize it. It is far and unreachable.

However, I need the courage to live peacefully, happily.

"At ease, and let go... Life shall be creeping peacefully then..."