Secretive yet pathetic

Not sure if the word "secretive" elaborate what i am feeling now correctly or not...
But i just feel a bit awkward when a friend trying to feign for some minor questions which obviously peoples can see she/he is wearing a mask when giving the reaction.

It suppose that's nothing right or wrong to spell that she/he cant tell the truth / secrets as she/he promise to do so. But, the feign reaction does make people feels that she/he is trying to make fool of a person's intelligence.

Well, sometimes i think sincerity counts a person's trustworthy. If a person does not sincere in her/his words/actions, it does break the trustworthy that people gives to her/him.

To act feign, i think it is not a good idea. I rather a person to be sincere to tell the truth rather than pretend good yet make people feels being fooled. Before you can master the feign skill, it is always better to be sincere. Unless you are 100% confident that you are able to act feign, yet receiver cant sense the humiliation that you have subjected to her/him.

I actually pity the person who feign the others, yet being disclosed. In fact, she/he looks like a clown in other eyes... What a pathetic action!