Learn to say No, and be myself

Sometimes too much considerations on others, peoples will take for granted.
Keep a distance should be the right way to be nice person. Learn the lesson hard pain now.
Even family member except own family and kids, no one is true family for married woman in her husband's family.

They only think of themselves and want the son to obey to them. They want to rule the family with rude manner to force you follow. Once you in need for help they will push you to edge. Waiting to see your response. When complains to husband, he has thousamd reasons why the mom do so.

So I learn the lesson. I will not pay for nothing or no reason anymore - just like what they did to me.

One day when they sick i will tell hundred of reasons that i cant help. No mercy anymore.