Unexpected Office Politic

It is a bit of shock to me that i have involved or even triggered an unexpected office politic. And, it is even more scary when i get to know a person can suppress his enmity months - waiting to attack! It is always not a good idea to over protect subordinate (just because you are his direct report) and stab others especially peers just because you want to survive your own peoples or to show your territory. Nevertherless, if it is a security or safety violation, it will ruin the subordinate's career path (being caught and expelled from the company) due to the direct report compromises some illegal matters.

It does not help the subordinate, instead it is extending the subordinate to more violations unconciously. Is it a wise action to revenge your peers by compromising your subordinate's career? It is good feeling when there is a chance that you can retaliate others. However, it is not a good idea if you involve your subordinate and sacrify his career path just because of the good feeling!!!

Guess, to be a leader, it really needs a better or higher EQ to tolerate on others comments, and feedbacks. And, it is also important that do not take the comments personally, heartache for months and years, just because waiting for a chance to revenge.

Life is short, enjoy, and take comments and feedback as a gift to be a better person!!!

Somehow, i deeply sympathy the subordinate of this person! It is just like a kid is not doing right, yet the parent is blaming on others to protect his own child. It will spoil the kid instead of helping the kid to improve. The kid is innocent, enjoying the 'love' of the parents does not help his future. It may ruins his entire life!!!

Wake up! Please be a responsible leader!

Exhausted mind, exhausted body, exhausted soul ...

I think i am aging as i started to have physically tireness from time to time... The brain just couldnt function well... it just like a CPU that is hang, and feels doing nothing! I force myself to do more things, but my brain just couldnt process more... Even i insist myself to do the work, end up there is so much careless mistake happens... I started to feel hopeless on myself for being careless, and out of control on my brain, and my body... Shall i look for easier job? Shall i stop torturing myself? OR Shall i give myself a break and resume the reading & and adventures? OR Shall i find a better way to continue earning? Somehow, sometimes, i just feel to let go everything... moving to a spiritual world - chanting for a week to release my mind tireness, my body tireness... etc, etc... amitabha.

PMP credential cycle extended!

Nothing much of this topic, just feel to share that I have extended the PMP credential cycle! With the effort of collecting 60 PDUs, and after paying USD299 + USD60, finally one of the worry that always stick in my mind gone away...

Yes! I can phase out this worriness from my memory for at least 6 years from now. What a relief! It was not big enough to impact my life, but I just feel that i shouldnt let go a hard earned credential after all the hardwork and pressure that i have gone thru...

Hurray! Bravo to myself! (lol, although i might be the only one that boosting about this.. :-p)

依然愛你 -- dedicated to my beloved hubby....

依然愛你

主唱：王力宏
作曲：王力宏
填詞：王力宏
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歌詞

一閃一閃亮晶晶　留下歲月的痕跡
我的世界的重心　依然還是你
一年一年又一年　飛逝僅在一轉眼
唯一永遠不改變　是不停的改變
我不像從前的自己　你也有點不像你
但在我眼中你的笑　依然的美麗
日子只能往前走　一個方向順時鐘
不知道愛有多久　所以要讓你懂
我依然愛你　將是唯一的退路
我依然珍惜　時時刻刻的幸福
你每個呼吸　每個動作　每個表情
到最後　一定會　依然愛你
(依然愛你　依然愛你…)

我不像從前的自己　你也有點不像你
但在我眼中你的笑　依然的美麗
日子只能往前走　一個方向順時鐘
不知道愛有多久　所以要讓你懂
我依然愛你　就是唯一的退路
我依然珍惜　時時刻刻的幸福
你每個呼吸　每個動作　每個表情
到最後　一定會　依然愛你
(依然愛你　依然愛你…)

我依然愛你　或許是命中注定
多年之後　任何人都無法代替
那些時光　是我這一輩子最美好的
那些回憶　依然無法忘記
我依然愛你　這是唯一的退路
我依然珍惜　時時刻刻的幸福
你每個呼吸　每個動作　每個表情
到永遠　一定會　依然愛你

Change, change, change

Not sure if bioclock is started to urge me for a change... Lately, i just feel a bit of getting bored to start my weekday...

Working without an objective or vision makes me uncertain and insecure. Hope few months down the road, i will see some changes...

Year 2012!

New year new resolutions!

But, what is mine? >.< i am still not yet set mine.... Or, i shall say, i got too many plans, and lack of confident to complete all.

I have been with current job for almost 2 years, feel a bit lack in keeping myself on studying technical skill. Although i have force myself to take up the PMI certification, but guess the certification has left behind about a year. It is time to equip myself to start another GOALS.

What are the goals that i shall working towards?

Improve my current skill? Improve my investment plan? Improve my personal life?

From all these 3, guess I am only able to work for skill, and investment plan. Wheares personal life, i think i need a balance life in order to have self satisfaction.

I am just not a person that can enjoy life without thinking about the realistic living... >.<""""

Ok, let me set my skill improvement plan.

Shall I take up ITIL, and Oracle certification?!

For ITIL, guess i just need a strong determination to force myself study!!!!
It shall be the easiest goal to set for this year!

Oracle certification!!! It has been years that i am aiming for it, but i just never ever get the realize ... Shall it happens this year?