How to treat the Past?

Just read from a quotes - how to go thru the pass so that you can disconnect your habbit?

Here is the quotes:

It's better to cross the line and suffer the consequences than to just stare at that line for the rest of your life.

It is always not easy to quit smoking or drinking. But, if you do not start from today, everyday is a temptation to you. If you do not determine today, you will always drive by the addiction.

It is the same for you to disconnect from an impossible relationship. It might be a habbit for you to have the person day to day with you. Without the hope, you feel your life is missing something, and your heart is misplaced. But, if the person is someone that could let you go, you must learn how to walk on your own. Your happiness shall not count on others, you shall bear the responsibilities on your own.

It might be a habbit that you may be tempted to give up. But dont give up! When you've misplaced your hopeful life, dare to believe again it is possible. Every human deserves a better life if he/she learns to grow. God will only punish someone who is punishing him/herself.

Catch a ray of sunshine,and hold on tightly. Each baby falls when he/she learns to walk. If the parents does not determine to hold his/her hand, he/she wouldnt able to walk on his/her feet when he/she grows. The one who holds your hand... will never let you go.The one that let you go, will not turn twice...

Stand still and brave to hold your believe. You shall be able to have your newly life if you are able to let go bravely...

Every new day is another chance to change your life! Grab the day, and start from today. If you failed on the day, start again, and determine to hold your believe. It might be slow, but it will happen if you hold it and believe in it!

Again, you might be smiling with a sour and bitter heart. But it will not always raining days... you shall see the rainbow when the rain subsides... And, you will appreciate when the sunshine again... that's life.

***An article that might help to retract yourself from clinging the past. http://www.justkeepthechange.com/why-you-cant-be-friends-with-your-ex-after-the-break-up-and-the-no-contact-rule